|My farmhouse, Phobjike valley|
o’clock at night and the family has sat down for dinner. I can’t say the Jones
family, because Bhutanese don’t use surnames. But to draw you a picture,
there’s four generations in the room: granny and grandpa, mum and dad, their
daughter, her two-year-old daughter and seven-year-old niece.
a large circle that includes me, my guide Tshering and driver Tensing.
no tables or chairs in the Bhutanese house. Everyone sits on thin mats around
the bhukhari (wood stove), and I admire the effortless half-lotus position that
the 79-year-old grandfather, Tshewangla, adopts for his light dinner.
rice is sticky and is rolled with your hand into a tight ball and daubed with chilli cooked in
cheese sauce. Chilli is not a flavouring, chilli is a vegetable to be eaten at
every meal, including breakfast.
months ago, the women did all the cooking on a two-ring gas burner and on the
wood stove. There was some light from the solar panels, but electricity has
changed all that. The warm kitchen is all very comfortable, with a fluorescent
light above and a home-grown soapie on tv. A little cat sleeps by the wood
stove, and I spot a rice cooker, microwave, toaster and fridge. Butter and
cheese are still often wrapped in rhododendron leaves to stop it from going
|Namgay Pem and her husband Phub Gaytshey.|
has changed our lives,” says Namgay Pem, the mother of the house. It’s helped
them to have better sanitation and everyone loves the soap opera, which won an
international award for its role in educating people about the dangers of HIV.
as a special guest in a full house, I sleep in the altar room. Namgay’s
husband, Phub Gaytshey, is a lay monk, and the room’s walls are covered in
elaborate paintings that pulsate with colour. One complete wall is taken up
with a deep altar which Phub attends carefully each morning.
demonstrates his ritual of offering tea, incense, water and three prostrations
to the altar, the two little girls show me their new three-day-old calf, safe
in a manger attached to the kitchen, and we pop a few arrows: archery is
Bhutan’s national sport, and their obsession is comparable to, say, the AFL or
in the 4WD to slip and slide up the muddy driveway, waving to the family. There
is no word for ‘goodbye’ in Dzongkha, only ‘see you again’.